If you’re a member of Gen Z and would like to buy a home someday, there’s a good chance you’ve already written off the possibility.

Rent, groceries, car payments, student loans, and just about everything else cost more than ever. And that’s before home prices and mortgage rates enter the conversation.

You don’t need anyone telling you how difficult it is. You already feel it. And it certainly doesn’t help when friends, family, the news, and social media make it sound like nobody can afford to buy a home these days, let alone someone your age.

So, it’s understandable if homeownership feels impossible.

But here’s a sliver of hope…

A record number of Gen Z buyers are proving it isn’t impossible.

Apparently… 1 in Every 5 Buyers Is Gen Z!

According to a recent ICE Mortgage Monitor report, Gen Z accounted for 20% of all purchase mortgage rate locks during the second quarter of 2026. That’s the generation’s largest share on record.

A mortgage rate lock temporarily secures a particular interest rate for a buyer while their loan is being processed. It doesn’t guarantee the purchase ultimately closed, but it indicates they were actively in the process of buying a home.

In other words, one out of every five mortgage rates locked by someone buying a home was for a member of Gen Z. They also accounted for nearly one-third of all first-time buyer loans.

Not that that isn’t surprising enough to hear given how people make it sound out there, but to put it in even more context, Gen Z is composed of people between the ages of 14-29 years old. The entire generation isn’t even of home buying age yet!

The Biggest Obstacle May Be Assuming It Isn’t Possible

One of the biggest obstacles potential first-time buyers face isn’t always their income, credit score, or savings.

Sometimes it’s simply assuming they won’t qualify without ever speaking to someone who can tell them for sure.

You may think you need a 20% down payment. You may assume your student loans automatically prevent you from qualifying. Perhaps you believe your credit needs to be flawless or that there aren’t any first-time buyer programs available where you live.

Those assumptions could stop you from taking the first step, even if you’re closer to being able to buy than you realize.

And even if you aren’t quite ready today, finding that out doesn’t make the conversation pointless. A knowledgeable real estate agent and reputable mortgage professional can help you understand what’s standing between you and buying a home.

You might find out that you need to improve your credit, pay down a particular debt, build more savings, or adjust the price range you were hoping to qualify for. That may sound discouraging, but knowing exactly what you need to work on is far more useful than vaguely assuming homeownership is entirely impossible.

No, the market isn’t easy for first-time buyers right now, and nobody should pretend otherwise. Buying may require patience, planning, and some compromises.
But difficult isn’t the same as impossible.

If owning a home is one of your goals, don’t rule yourself out based on what you’ve heard or how far away it feels. Find out what’s actually possible.

You may discover that homeownership is still a few years away.

Or you may discover that “someday” is closer than you think.

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Every year, on the third Saturday of July, millions of people celebrate National Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day.

OK… maybe not millions. But somebody probably does!

While it’s not exactly the kind of holiday most people mark on their calendars, it’s built around an idea that’s surprisingly relatable. We all have moments we wish we could do over.

Maybe you could have invested in a company before its stock took off. Maybe you should have kept that classic car instead of selling it years ago. Maybe you could have taken that job, started that business, or simply made a different decision somewhere along the way.

Real estate has no shortage of “could haves” and “should haves,” either.

In fact, one that’s been floating around quite a bit lately sounds something like this:

“Maybe I should have sold my house a few years ago.”

“Maybe I’ll just wait until the market gets better…”

If you’ve been paying attention to the housing market lately, you may have noticed that some homeowners are putting their houses up for sale… and then deciding to take them back off the market.

According to recent data, delistings have been on the rise as more sellers decide they’d rather wait than accept a market that isn’t quite living up to their expectations. In fact, they’re delisting at the highest rate since 2020, right around the time the pandemic began.

When you think about it, it’s not hard to understand why.

For several years, many sellers got used to homes selling almost immediately, multiple offers arriving within days, buyers waiving contingencies, and offers coming in above asking price.

But, as real estate markets tend to do, they’ve changed in many areas.

Depending on where you live, and the price range your home is in, buyers may have more choices than they’ve had in years. They may take longer to make a decision. They’re more likely to ask for inspections, repairs, seller concessions, or simply negotiate harder than they would have a few years ago.

For some homeowners, that shift is frustrating enough to make them think…

“Maybe I’ll just wait until the market gets better.”

And for some people, that may absolutely be the right decision.

Two Thoughts That Are Closer Than They Appear

What’s interesting is that the two thoughts we’ve been talking about are actually pretty close cousins.

“Maybe I should have sold my house a few years ago.”

“Maybe I’ll just wait until the market gets better.”

One is based on wishing you could go back and capitalize on yesterday’s market.

The other is based on hoping you’ll recognize the right time to capitalize on tomorrow’s.

They’re both completely understandable. In fact, they’re probably thoughts just about everyone has had at one point or another—not just in real estate, but in life.

The catch is that neither one is particularly helpful when you’re trying to decide what to do today.

After all, you can’t sell your house three years ago.

And no one—not even the smartest economists—knows exactly what the housing market is going to look like three years from now. Or any other number of years for that matter. You can only make decisions based on what the market is currently doing.

The Problem With Using Extraordinary as Your Baseline

It’s also worth remembering that today’s market isn’t necessarily a bad market for sellers.

In many parts of the country, home prices are still historically strong. In fact, if you ask many buyers how they feel about today’s market, there’s a good chance they’ll tell you homes are still too expensive and affordability remains one of their biggest challenges.

What’s changed isn’t necessarily that sellers have lost all of their leverage.

It’s that many of them have lost the extraordinary leverage they enjoyed just a few years ago.

But now your home may take a little longer to sell. You might not have quite as many showings. Your buyer may ask for repairs or seller concessions that would have been laughed off during the frenzy of the pandemic market.

None of those things necessarily mean it’s a bad time to sell. They may simply mean the market has become a little more… normal.

And normal can feel disappointing when you’re comparing it to one of the strongest seller’s markets in modern history.

Every Market Creates a Few “Should Haves”

One of the interesting things about real estate is that every market eventually becomes the one somebody wishes they’d taken advantage of.

Looking back, it’s easy to find a market where you wish you had bought, sold, or invested. The challenge, of course, is that nobody knows which market people will be saying that about until years later.

Will some homeowners who decide to wait ultimately be glad they did? Absolutely. Every seller’s situation is different, and for some, waiting may prove to be exactly the right decision.

But chances are, this market will also become one that at least some homeowners eventually look back on and say, “I probably should have sold then.”

The only problem is that none of us knows which market that will be until we’re looking at it in the rearview mirror.

That’s why “could haves” and “should haves” usually aren’t the best guide when making real estate decisions. They only show up after the fact.

If you’re debating whether to sell now, wait a while, or even relist a home you recently took off the market, one of the smartest things you can do is have a conversation with a knowledgeable real estate agent. They can help you evaluate your local market, your personal situation, and your long-term goals so your decision is based on today’s realities—not yesterday’s regrets or tomorrow’s unknowns.

And if nothing else, perhaps National Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day is a good reminder that yesterday’s market is gone, tomorrow’s market hasn’t arrived, and today’s market is the only one any of us actually gets to make decisions in.

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Summer is vacation season.

Families head to the beach. They take cruises. They visit relatives. And yes… even real estate agents occasionally manage to get away for a few days.

Despite all the jokes agents make about working from the beach, answering emails poolside, or taking phone calls while standing in line at a theme park, there are some parts of the job they simply can’t do remotely.

Showing houses is one of them.

That can create a frustrating situation if you’re actively looking for a home and the perfect property suddenly hits the market while your agent is away.

Your first thought might be, “No problem. I’ll just have another agent show it to me.”

While that may seem like a simple enough request (and an easy solution), there’s a good chance the agent you ask is going to make it sound like you just asked them to commit a crime. Or at least something far more complicated than you expected.

Why Buyers Think It’s No Big Deal

Most buyers aren’t trying to avoid working with their own agent. They’re simply afraid they’ll miss out on a great house while waiting for them to get back from vacation.

From a buyer’s perspective, asking another agent to show them a house probably doesn’t feel like a big ask.

The house is sitting there waiting to be shown. The lockbox is already on the door. The showing will probably only take twenty or thirty minutes. And if the agent you call is available, what’s the big deal?

After all, showing houses is what real estate agents do for a living.

But then the agent starts asking questions about whether you’re pre-approved, where you are in your home search, and… whether you’re already working with another agent.

It can start to feel a little pushy, and you might wonder why it’s any of their business. After all, you just want to see the house. Just. Show. Me. The. House. Can you do it or not?!

The thing is, those questions usually aren’t about being nosy. The agent is simply trying to figure out whether they can show you the property without creating problems for everyone involved… while also making sure it’s a smart use of their time.

Why Agents Might Make It a Big Deal

The biggest question an agent will usually ask is whether you’re already working with another real estate agent.

Ironically, it isn’t because they’re sizing the situation up and trying to steal you away.

In fact, it’s often exactly the opposite.

Most agents don’t want to interfere with another agent’s relationship with their client. If you’ve already chosen someone to represent you, they need to be careful about stepping into the middle of that relationship.

It’s not simply a matter of professional courtesy, either. Agency relationships come with legal responsibilities, and agents need to understand who they’re working with before moving forward. The last thing they want is to accidentally create confusion about who represents you.

That became even more important following changes to real estate practices that took effect in 2024. Today, many real estate professionals are required to have buyers sign a written agreement before privately touring a home. If you’ve already signed one with another agent, having someone else show you the property could create complications that nobody wants to sort out later.

There are also safety considerations.

Real estate agents routinely meet complete strangers at vacant homes. Before agreeing to meet someone they’ve never spoken with, it’s perfectly reasonable to ask a few questions about who they’ll be meeting.

And then there’s the time involved.

From the outside, it can look like you’re asking someone to spend twenty minutes opening a door.

In reality, it often means coordinating with the listing agent, confirming the appointment, rearranging other commitments, driving to the property, waiting if schedules don’t line up perfectly, showing the home, answering questions, and then heading off to the next appointment.

For a client they’re actively working with, that’s simply part of the job.

For someone they may never hear from again, it’s a much bigger request than it first appears.

Why You Probably Don’t Want a Random Agent Anyway

Even if another agent is perfectly willing to show you the house, it’s worth asking whether that’s actually the best situation for you.

Your own agent already knows far more than someone you’re meeting for the first time.

They know what features you’ve loved in other homes and which ones have been deal breakers.

They know your budget, your financing, your timeline, and the little preferences you’ve probably mentioned over the course of your search.

They can compare this home to the dozens of others you’ve already seen. They know whether this kitchen is actually larger than the last one you loved, whether this neighborhood checks the boxes you’ve been looking for, or whether this home solves concerns you’ve run into before.

Perhaps most importantly, it’s about representation.

Your own agent isn’t simply there to unlock the front door. They’re there to help you evaluate the property, point out potential concerns, answer questions in the context of everything else you’ve seen, negotiate on your behalf if you decide to make an offer, and help you make a good decision.

An agent you’re meeting for the first time may very well be capable of doing all of those things. But it’s difficult to do them well when the relationship begins with, “Can you meet me there in 30 minutes?”

That’s one reason many agents arrange for a trusted colleague to help cover showings while they’re away. Most agents understand that the market doesn’t take vacations, even if they do. If the right house comes along, they already have someone they trust who can step in temporarily without creating unnecessary confusion.

So if your agent is out of town, your first call probably shouldn’t be to another random agent. It should be to your own. Even if they can’t personally show you the house, there’s a good chance they’ve already planned for exactly this situation. And if they haven’t, they can usually help you come up with a solution that’s far better than simply calling the first available agent you can find.

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There comes a point in every home search where you simply have to make a decision when you find a home you like.

You can tour the home twice. Sleep on it for a night or two. Ask friends and family what they think. Maybe even go back for a third tour with friends or family. (Well, at least if you aren’t pressed for time because there’s a bidding war.)

But eventually, there comes a moment when you have to decide whether to write an offer… and if so, how much.

And if deciding on whether or not to make an offer was a difficult decision, coming up with a price can be even more stressful.

After all, if your offer is too low, you might lose the house. If it’s too high, you might spend years wondering if you overpaid.

How are you supposed to know you’re making the “right” decision?

Trying to Avoid Buyer’s Remorse

Part of what makes deciding on an offer price so difficult is that most buyers are subconsciously trying to avoid something they haven’t even experienced yet. (And might not ever experience it at all.)

Buyer’s remorse.

It’s that feeling of doubt, anxiety, or regret after making an offer or going under contract on a home. More often than not, it boils down to wondering whether you paid too much. It can show up shortly after your offer is accepted while you’re in escrow, or even after you’ve closed on the home.

“Did I overpay?”

“Did I just make a huge mistake?”

Those questions are incredibly common, especially when you’re making one of the biggest financial decisions of your life. And that’s exactly why so many buyers spend so much time agonizing over what number to put on the offer in the first place. They’re not just trying to buy the house—they’re trying to avoid future regret.

The good news is that, deep down, you’re already thinking about all of this before you actually buy the house. Buyer’s remorse can’t happen until after the decision has already been made. Simply being aware of it ahead of time can help you avoid going through those regrets… and perhaps even help you avoid an entirely different type of regret.

The Other Regret Agents See All the Time

One of the hardest things for a real estate agent to balance with a buyer is helping them understand how it might feel if they lose a house they truly love.

Maybe they took too long to decide. Maybe they came in with an offer that was just a little too low. Maybe they got buyer’s remorse after their offer was accepted and found a way to back out of the deal… only to realize later they regretted not buying the house.

Real estate agents see this play out throughout their careers.

They’ve seen buyers replay the decision over and over. Wonder what would’ve happened if they’d offered a little more. Wish they had acted a little sooner. Or realize the home they passed on was exactly the one they had been looking for all along.

That’s why good buyer’s agents try to prepare their clients for both possibilities.

It’s a delicate balancing act. They don’t want to pressure you into spending more than you’re comfortable with. They don’t want to sound alarmist or pushy. Their job isn’t to convince you to make the highest offer possible. It’s to help you make an informed decision you’ll feel good about, regardless of the outcome.

Unfortunately, some buyers inevitably find themselves watching someone else move into the home they can’t stop thinking about… and wondering whether they made the bigger mistake by not buying it.

Apparently, Both Can Be True…

Interestingly, researchers recently explored this very idea by putting participants through a series of decisions involving real money. In each round, they had to choose between guaranteed payouts and riskier options, creating situations where they could either avoid a loss or later see what they would have won had they made a different choice.

For years, researchers generally treated fear of loss and regret as two separate forces that influence our decisions. But this study found they can actually work at the same time.

Fear of loss was the stronger motivator while people were making their decision. But once participants could see the outcome they had missed, regret became a measurable factor as well.

In a lot of ways, that’s exactly what happens when people buy a home.

Before making an offer, buyers are trying to avoid making a decision they’ll regret. They worry about overpaying. They worry about stretching their budget too far. They worry about making a costly mistake.

But when they lose a house, they can see exactly what they missed.

They drive past the house. They see someone else’s car in the driveway. Holiday decorations on the porch. Flowers blooming in the landscaping. Life unfolding in the home they almost owned.

It becomes the house they almost bought. The one they could have bought. The one that got away.

How to Feel More Confident About Your Decision

One of the best ways to reduce uncertainty is to rely on the advice and experience of your buyer’s agent. They’ve helped other buyers navigate these same emotions before. Part market expert, part negotiator, and sometimes part therapist, they can help you separate emotion from reality when it’s time to make an offer.

They can also help you truly understand your local market. Having your agent show you what similar homes have been selling for, how competitive conditions are, and how your target home compares can give you far more confidence than simply picking a number that “feels right.”

Finally, before you write your offer, decide on the highest price you can honestly pay while still feeling comfortable with your decision—whether your offer is accepted or not.

One way to think about it is this: if someone else offered just a little more and got the house instead, would you look back wishing you had stretched a bit further? Or would you be at peace knowing you stayed true to your budget and what the home was worth to you?

There’s no way to eliminate uncertainty when buying a home. But making an informed decision you can feel good about—regardless of how things turn out—is one of the best ways to avoid either kind of regret.

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Without overthinking it… if you were sitting down to play a game of Monopoly, which two properties would you most want to own?

There’s a decent chance Park Place and Boardwalk crossed your mind.

They’re expensive. They feel prestigious. They’re kind of the Monopoly version of making it. And if you’re being investment-minded, they probably seem like the smartest things to own if your goal is cashing in when other players land on your properties.

If those were your picks, apparently you’d be in good company.

Journalist Art Schreiber, who spent time traveling with and interviewing The Beatles over the years, once shared that the group enjoyed playing Monopoly together. According to this article, Schreiber said John Lennon didn’t actually seem all that concerned with winning… he just wanted Park Place and Boardwalk.

Honestly, that’s really not all that surprising. Plenty of people set their sights on those two properties. The more intriguing detail from the story is that George Harrison set his sights on B&O Railroad. And what’s even more intriguing is that he never would never explain why.

Which leaves us to speculate….

Is B&O Railroad Better Than Boardwalk?

Park Place and Boardwalk can certainly create massive paydays.

But first, you have to be lucky enough to land on them before somebody else does and have enough Monopoly money to buy them. Then you have to spend even more money building houses and hotels… and after all of that, you still have to wait for the roll of the dice to send other players your way.

According to this article, Boardwalk ranks #16 when it comes to the spaces players land on most frequently. On the other hand, B&O Railroad is the #2 spot! And Reading Railroad comes in at #4.

The article even suggests that buying railroads early in the game is a great strategy because they cost nothing to build up, and they can provide a constant income stream that helps fund everything else you do later in the game.

So maybe George Harrison was onto something and didn’t want to share his trade secrets. It might be worth trying the railroad strategy the next time you find yourself playing Monopoly.

But when it comes to investing in actual real estate, your first investment property isn’t something you want to choose based on a roll of the dice. After all, you’re not playing with Monopoly money in real life.

Know Your Options Before You Put Real Money on the Board

In Monopoly, everybody is playing the same game with the same rules, the same starting cash, and the same fixed array of properties to buy.

There are a lot more variables and options in real life!

Some people invest in single-family homes. Others prefer condos, multi-family properties, vacation rentals, commercial properties, or land. Some investors are looking for monthly cash flow. Others care more about appreciation over time. Some want something lower maintenance while others are comfortable taking on more work in exchange for more upside.

And that’s before you even start factoring in budget, financing options, local market conditions, risk tolerance, and how involved you actually want to be.

Just like Monopoly, there isn’t one universally “best” property. Park Place isn’t automatically right. B&O Railroad isn’t automatically right.

The goal isn’t finding the property that sounds the most impressive or buying the one that seems like a great deal at first glance. The goal is finding the investment that makes sense for your goals and understanding the tradeoffs that come with it.

That’s one of the biggest reasons it can help to talk with a knowledgeable real estate agent before making your first investment purchase. They can help you explore options you may not have considered, look at local trends and numbers, and think through different approaches before you put real money on the board.

The Takeaway:

John Lennon reportedly loved owning Park Place and Boardwalk when playing Monopoly, while George Harrison quietly preferred B&O Railroad. Whether George had discovered some secret strategy or simply liked the railroad, it’s a good reminder that there’s often more than one way to approach investing.

Real estate investing in real life works much the same way. There are many different ways to invest and many different types of properties to consider.

If buying your first investment property is something you’ve been thinking about, it may be worth talking with a knowledgeable real estate agent before making your move. They can help you understand your options, evaluate opportunities, and build a strategy based upon your goals.

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Did you know that June is National Homeownership Month?

Probably not. Most people aren’t exactly putting it on the calendar, taking time off work, or gathering friends to celebrate the concept of owning real estate.

For some people, it might actually feel like something worth celebrating. Maybe they already own a home, remember how hard they worked to buy it, and still feel a little spark of pride every time they pull into the driveway.

But for anyone who doesn’t own a home yet, it might be hard to get all that excited about something that feels increasingly out of reach.

Home prices have climbed. Interest rates are higher than they were a few years ago. Inventory has been tight in many areas. And if you spend enough time scrolling online, it can start to feel like there are two groups of people in the world: people who already own homes, and people wondering if they missed their chance.

So it’s understandable if homeownership feels a little like an exclusive club filled with people who bought before prices took off. Who locked in a mortgage rate that now seems like something from a fairy tale. Or who had help from family, made more money, found the perfect deal, or just happened to be ready at the right time.

But they’re not the only stories.

Not every homeowner lucked into the perfect market, the perfect house, or the perfect set of circumstances. For many people, getting there involved years of saving, making tradeoffs, buying something smaller than they imagined, moving farther out than they hoped, fixing up a place that needed work, or taking a first step that looked nothing like the dream home they had in mind.

Which brings us to a story you might find inspiring…

The American Dream Doesn’t Always Start with the Dream Home

Most people know Arnold Schwarzenegger as a bodybuilder, movie star, businessman, and former governor.

But if you asked him how he became a millionaire, his answer might surprise you.

Before Hollywood made him famous, he had already become one through real estate.

He came to the United States from Austria with big ambitions and a love of bodybuilding, which was not exactly a guaranteed path to wealth. But rather than waiting until he could afford some glamorous lifestyle, he used what he had and made strategic decisions with it.

He took money he earned through bodybuilding and other early ventures and put it into income-producing real estate. Instead of simply buying the nicest place he could afford for himself, he bought a multifamily property where he lived in one unit and rented out the others. Then he repeated the process.

Before he was making millions on movies, he had already become a millionaire through real estate.

This isn’t to suggest that his path is the best or only way to become a homeowner, or that buying a multifamily property is some guaranteed path to your first million. Or an acting career, for that matter.

But the lesson is still useful.

The path to homeownership, or real estate ownership in general, does not always look like saving up until you can buy the house you pictured in your head.

Sometimes it starts with buying something that helps create more options later.

The Path to Homeownership Isn’t Always a Straight Line

A lot of people picture the path to homeownership as a pretty straight line.

You save money. You find a house you love. You buy it. You move in and live happily ever after… aside from the occasional broken water heater, surprise repair bill, and eventually learning far more about HVAC systems than you ever planned to.

And for some people, it actually does happen more or less that way.

But for many others, the first step looks different.

It might be buying a condo instead of a single-family home. It might mean choosing a smaller house than originally planned, looking in a different area, buying something that needs updating, or purchasing a home that works well for this stage of life instead of trying to find one that checks every box forever.

Sometimes the dream home is not the first home.

Sometimes the first home is simply the move that helps make the next move possible.

That may not sound as exciting as walking straight into the perfect house, but it can be a lot more realistic. And in some cases, staying open to different paths can actually make the end goal more attainable than spending years waiting for the perfect combination of prices, rates, income, savings, inventory, and timing to magically line up.

That doesn’t mean settling or lowering your standards.

It simply means remembering that there may be more than one way to arrive at the place you ultimately want to be.

The Takeaway:

June is National Homeownership Month, which probably isn’t something you’re making big plans to celebrate even if you are a homeowner. And if you don’t own a home, it’s even more difficult to get all that excited about something that feels increasingly out of reach.

But the path to homeownership may not be as out of reach as it feels. It may simply look different than the path you envisioned for yourself.

If owning a home is one of your goals, it may be worth talking with a knowledgeable real estate agent even if it doesn’t feel realistic right now. They can help you assess where you are today, explore different paths forward, and come up with a plan to help get you from where you are now to where you ultimately want to be.

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If you’re looking for a unique property, you’re in luck! The world’s tallest thermometer recently hit the market for sale!

It’s perfect if you happen to have a 134-foot tall roadside attraction with 4+ acres on your wishlist.

While you probably aren’t in the market for a giant thermometer in the middle of the desert, it’s a great metaphor for something that happens constantly in real estate.

Whether they’re aware of it or not, people often decide whether they should buy a home based upon whether or not the real estate market is “hot.”

It’s like the permission they’re waiting for. If everyone else seems to be buying a house, it must be a great time to buy. Perhaps it’s a little fear of missing out thrown in there for good measure.

Ironically, when that happens, buyers get frustrated and angry and wonder, “When in the world will this market ever cool down so I can buy a property without getting in a bidding war and paying over asking price?!”

Even more ironically, once the market cools down, those same buyers often feel like there must be something wrong with the market, and put their home search on hold until there are clear signs the market is “hot” again.

What Makes the Real Estate Market “Hot”?

The simplest answer to that question is… buyers. The more buyers competing for a limited number of listings, the quicker houses sell, and the more they sell for.

But what makes buyers all decide it’s a good time to buy?

It’s typically a combination of things, like low interest rates, a strong economy, and overall consumer confidence. This is further fueled by media coverage and social media posts hyping up how great the market is, almost making it sound too good to pass up.

All of those things combine and make buyers of all ages and walks of life (as well as price ranges) flood the market to get in on the good times.

When you stop and think about it, a “hot” market is pretty one-sided. Those good times are better for sellers. Sellers reap the benefits of a hot market, not the buyers. As more and more buyers enter the market, it creates bidding wars and pushes the prices higher.

Some buyers just get tired of losing houses in a bidding war, and need to take a break from house hunting for their own sanity, or because they’re being priced out of the market, and vow to start their search again once the market cools down.

But How Do You Know When It’s Cooled Down Enough?

The problem with taking a break from house hunting is that it’s difficult to know when the market is cooling down.

There’s no formal announcement or definition to even base it upon. A cooling market isn’t hyped up like a hot market is. If anything, the media and online vibe might make it sound like it’s a bad time to buy a house.

It’s as if the only ideal market is a “hot” market. That’s what people want to talk about, and it’s what excites and motivates buyers to enter the market.

So when you’re seeing and hearing how houses are sitting on the market longer, sellers are dropping their prices, and interest rates are higher than they’ve been in quite some time, it’s easy to feel like it’s not a good time to buy a house.

But it may be a more buyer-friendly environment than people realize…

For years, buyers said they wished the market would calm down. They wanted fewer bidding wars, less urgency, and more of an opportunity to actually evaluate a home before making an offer instead of feeling like they had to decide before they even got back to their car.

So when you hear the news talking about sellers lowering prices, houses taking longer to sell, contracts falling through, or homes coming back on the market, it may actually be a signal to start paying closer attention rather than tuning out.

That doesn’t mean every house is suddenly a great deal, or that there won’t still be competition for some listings. Any house priced well for the market can still generate strong interest and multiple offers regardless of broader conditions.

But there’s a difference between healthy competition and stressful chaos.

If you’ve been waiting for the market to cool down enough to hop back into the buyer seat, it may be worth considering whether the market conditions you’ve been hoping for have quietly arrived without a big announcement.

Unfortunately, there’s no giant thermometer sitting on the side of the road telling you when the real estate market has cooled down enough to jump back in.

So if you’ve been sitting on the sidelines waiting for a sign, it might be worth having a conversation with your local buyer’s agent to see whether conditions have changed in your price range and the areas you’re considering.

You may find the market temperature is more comfortable than you think.

The Takeaway:

People often think of a “hot” real estate market as the ideal time to buy a house. But ironically, those same conditions can create bidding wars, push prices higher, and make buyers feel rushed or discouraged enough to step away from the market altogether.

The tricky part is that cooling markets are rarely announced. Instead of excitement and headlines about houses flying off the shelf, the conversation subtly shifts to things like higher rates, price reductions, and homes taking longer to sell. That can make buyers hesitate even if those are actually the conditions they were hoping for all along.

If you’ve been sitting on the sidelines waiting for the market to cool down enough to jump back in, it may be worth taking another look. The perfect market temperature doesn’t really exist, but depending on your goals and local conditions, today’s market may feel more comfortable than you think.

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Pools can create a great place to relax, entertain friends, spend time with family, and add to the enjoyment of your home.

However, they can cost a lot to install. And once they’re in, the spending doesn’t stop there. Maintenance, chemicals, opening and closing costs, repairs, equipment replacement, heating…

But when it’s 90 degrees outside and you’re floating in your own backyard while everyone else is wishing they had one of their own, it can feel worth every penny.

And besides… doesn’t owning one improve the value of your home anyway?

Maybe.

Maybe not.

Supply and Demand May Tip the Scales in Your Favor…

As with most home improvements and features, whether a pool adds value to your home depends on a lot of factors.

But if there’s one universal thing that can tip the scales in your favor (or not!), it’s the laws of supply and demand.

According to industry estimates, there are roughly 10.4 million residential swimming pools in the United States. That sounds like a lot, right? But that’s only about 8% of households.

At first glance, that probably sounds like installing a pool is a no-brainer. After all, if only a small percentage of homes have pools, shouldn’t that automatically make a home with one more valuable?
Not necessarily. Because scarcity alone doesn’t create value. Demand does.

If there are buyers actively searching for a pool and there aren’t many available homes offering one, it can absolutely work in your favor.

And the more specific buyers get with their wish list, the more that can potentially impact value..

Industry data suggests that roughly 59% of residential pools are in-ground and 41% are above-ground. So if a buyer specifically wants an in-ground pool—and your home checks that box—it may become more appealing than competing homes that don’t.

On the other hand, another buyer may prefer an above-ground pool because it can often feel like less of a commitment and may offer more flexibility down the road.

So the fact that relatively few homes have pools—and fewer still of a specific type—could potentially work in your favor.

But the key word is still may.

Should We Add a Fourth “Location” to the Old Adage?

You’ve probably heard someone say the one thing that affects real estate values most is, “location, location, location.”

Usually, that refers to things like where the home sits within a town, the school district, neighborhood, the view, or any other number of things you can’t really change on your own about a house.

But location also changes how buyers think about features you can add to a home… like a pool.

For instance, if you live in Florida where pools are common and many competing homes on the market also have one, your pool probably won’t stand out all that much. Buyers may simply expect it.

On the other hand, if you live in Alaska where pools are less common but there are buyers who would love a pool, your home may offer something that’s harder to find, which could potentially work in your favor.

So where your home is located will likely have some impact on whether a pool adds value. While only about 8% of homes in the U.S. have pools, certain states and markets have a much higher concentration of them while others have very few.

And to take it a step further, it also depends on whether there happens to be a buyer in the market for a home with a pool at the time you decide to sell…

Ironically, Having A Pool Can Limit Your Buyer Pool

Not everybody wants a pool. While pools can increase demand from certain buyers, they can also eliminate certain people as potential buyers for your home.

For every buyer imagining summer cookouts and relaxing weekends by the water, there’s another thinking through the downsides to having one. For instance:

• A buyer with small children may see safety concerns.
• Someone who travels often may not want the upkeep.
• Another buyer may simply prefer a bigger lawn or room for a garden.
• Perhaps they just don’t want the extra monthly expenses or upkeep it would entail.

But it’s worth keeping in mind that depending on your market, a pool may narrow your buyer pool when it comes time to sell… even if it makes your home much more appealing to the buyers who remain.

It Really Boils Down to How Much Enjoyment It Will Add…

A pool is a great example of something in real estate that doesn’t always fit neatly into a spreadsheet.

Could it add value? Absolutely.

Could it add less value than it cost to install? Also absolutely.

But not every decision about your home has to be measured by resale value alone. Some improvements end up adding to your bottom line when you sell. Others add value of another type because they make you enjoy your home more while living there.

If spending summer afternoons floating in your backyard, hosting friends, cooling off after work, and creating memories with family sounds worth it to you, that may be all the return you need.

But if resale value is something you want to size up before installing one, consider asking a local real estate agent for their take before moving forward. They may be able to tell you whether buyers in your area generally see a pool as a premium feature, or view it as something they’d rather not take on.

The Takeaway:

Recent data suggests that only about 8% of homes in the United States have a swimming pool.

That might make installing one seem like a no-brainer if increasing your home’s value is the goal. After all, if relatively few homes have pools, shouldn’t having one automatically make your home more valuable?

Maybe. But as with most things in real estate, it ultimately comes down to supply and demand.

If buyers in your area are actively looking for homes with pools and there aren’t many available, that scarcity could absolutely work in your favor. But in another market, a pool may simply be expected… or could even limit the number of interested buyers.

If adding value is an important part of the decision, consider asking a local real estate agent whether pools in your market are generally viewed as a premium feature—or simply another thing to maintain.

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It’s startling enough when you turn 50 and the AARP invitations start showing up in your mailbox offering you a free tote bag and discounts on river cruises.

At one point in time that may have been an acceptable age to start making someone feel like they’re getting older, but in this day and age, even turning 70 doesn’t feel “old” the way it once did.

So if you came across this CNBC article suggesting there is evidence that people over 70 often receive lower prices for their homes compared to younger homeowners, it might be something you’d prefer to ignore or dismiss.

But according to research done by the Center for Retirement Research at Boston College, once sellers reach that age, they start getting lower sale prices for their houses compared to sellers in their 40s and 50s.

That doesn’t mean people suddenly lose the ability to make smart decisions once they turn 70, nor should anyone take this as some kind of insult. People are living longer, healthier, more active lives than ever before, and many homeowners are simply staying in their homes much longer than previous generations did.

But it probably is worth taking a look at some of the reasons this may happen when it does, so you can be aware of them and better prepared to make smart decisions whenever the time comes to sell your own home.

The House Slowly Becomes “Good Enough”

One challenge that can happen after living in a home for decades is that you slowly stop noticing certain things.

The worn carpeting. The faded paint. The outdated light fixtures. The cabinet doors that don’t quite close correctly anymore. The “junk drawer” that somehow became an entire junk room.

It’s easy to get used to the things around your house that could impact how much buyers are willing to pay for it.

How to avoid it:

This doesn’t mean you need to do a complete renovation and update your entire house. But before listing your home, ask a trusted friend, family member, or real estate agent to walk through the property with completely fresh eyes. Even small cosmetic improvements, minor repairs, decluttering, and fresh paint can sometimes make a much bigger impact than sellers expect.

The “Easy Sale” Can Sound Really Appealing

After decades of homeownership, the idea of cleaning, preparing for showings, keeping the house spotless, and dealing with moving logistics can feel exhausting.

That’s one reason quick cash offers and off-market deals can sometimes become especially tempting for older homeowners. And nowadays, those opportunities seem to come from everywhere. Investors. “We buy houses” companies. Random phone calls and mailers. Neighbors. Family friends. Even family members themselves.

And to be fair, sometimes accepting less money actually does make sense depending on the situation.

Maybe the house needs major updates or repairs you simply don’t want to deal with. Maybe avoiding months of preparation and stress is worth something to you. Maybe you genuinely want to help a child, grandchild, or someone close to you by giving them an opportunity to buy the home.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with any of those decisions.

The important thing is simply making sure you fully understand what you may be giving up financially in exchange for the convenience, simplicity, or generosity involved.

How to avoid it:

Even if you ultimately decide to sell privately or accept a direct offer, it’s still smart to understand what your home could realistically sell for on the open market first. Having a trusted third party help you evaluate the offer, the buyer, and the overall situation can help ensure you’re making a fully informed decision rather than one based solely on pressure, urgency, or emotion.

It May Feel “Wrong” to Make So Much on Your House

For some older homeowners, one of the biggest surprises can simply be how much their home is actually worth.

If you bought your house decades ago, today’s prices can sometimes feel almost ridiculous. You may look at what buyers are paying and think, “There’s no way this house should cost that much.”

Many homeowners remember when the idea of paying today’s prices for an average home would have sounded completely unrealistic. So when it comes time to sell, some sellers may just feel like the buyer shouldn’t have to pay so much for their home.

Of course, if you deliberately want to give someone a deal—whether it’s family, friends, or simply because it feels like the right thing to do—that’s completely your choice.

But it’s important to remember that real estate is ultimately a supply-and-demand market, and buyers themselves determine value every single day through the prices they are willing to pay.

How to avoid it:

Before making decisions based on what you think your home should be worth, get a thorough market analysis from an experienced real estate agent who understands your local market. Even if you ultimately choose to price aggressively, sell privately, or give someone a break on price, you’ll at least be making that decision from a fully informed position.

The Takeaway:

A recent study found that homeowners over the age of 70 often receive lower prices for their homes compared to younger sellers.

The good news is that many of the reasons behind that are likely avoidable once you know what to watch out for. Whether it’s getting fresh eyes on your home before listing it, understanding what your house could realistically sell for on the open market, or simply slowing down and gathering advice from trusted friends, family members, or a local real estate agent before making major decisions, a little preparation can go a long way.

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When people think about the hidden costs of owning a home, they usually picture things like unexpected repairs or higher-than-expected utility bills.

And there’s some truth to that. In fact, a recent report found that many homeowners say the costs of owning a home ended up being higher than expected overall.

But before anyone starts envisioning surprise financial disasters around every corner, this article isn’t about expensive roof repairs or an electric bill that shot through the roof after running the air conditioning on full blast during a weeklong heatwave.

This is about much smaller costs that just seem shockingly expensive simply because nobody prepares you for the price tag.

We’re talking about standing in the aisle of a home improvement store and wondering whether you accidentally grabbed the premium luxury version of… a garbage can.

If you’ve owned a home for a while, you’ve probably experienced a few of these already. If you’re planning to buy your first home, consider this less of a warning and more of a friendly preview.

Refrigerator Water Filters

The first time you buy a refrigerator with a built-in water and ice dispenser, you think: This is great, it’ll be so much better than tap water…

Then six months later a little reminder light pops on telling you it’s time to replace the filter.

No big deal.

Until you look it up and realize many manufacturer filters can cost $40–$60 each. And some need to be replaced twice a year!

At first you assume there must be a mistake.

It’s tiny. It weighs practically nothing. Yet somehow this little plastic cylinder costs enough that you suddenly find yourself wondering whether the tap water was really all that bad after all.

Garden Hoses

How much could a hose possibly cost?

Turns out, a decent hose can easily run $40–$70.

Of course, that’s if you just need a hose. But you’re probably also going to need a new nozzle. Maybe a sprinkler. A hose reel could be nice instead of coiling it into a tangled pile on the ground.

You walked into the store figuring you’d buy a hose for around $15-$25 (if you splurged on the high end one!), but end up wondering how you not only got a hose… you got hosed for $150.

Trash Cans

Outdoor garbage cans are the type of thing you often need a couple of. One for trash, one for recycling, and maybe an extra just in case you have more trash than normal before pick-up day.

But then you discover the nice rugged ones can cost upwards of $70–$100 each…

There’s something a little painful about spending that kind of money on an item that seems destined to eventually lose a fight with sanitation equipment. Then again, maybe that’s why it’s worth spending that much on a heavy-duty one.

Light Bulbs

You never really know when a lightbulb is going to go out, so it’s nice to have a variety of them on hand just in case.

If you’re just heading to the store to buy a couple of general purpose bulbs, that’s not going to break the bank. But if you want to stock up on a multi-pack of the various types of bulbs you need on hand, you could easily find yourself spending between $50-$100.

You won’t regret it when you need one in a pinch, but that doesn’t stop you from feeling the pinch at the register.

Batteries

Much like light bulbs, batteries are another one of those things that seem simple… until you realize you need a small inventory of them. AA. AAA. 9-volt. Coin batteries…

You never know when you’ll need them, or which one you’ll need. Smoke detectors notoriously chirp at 2:00 in the morning. The garage keypad dies when you’re running late. The TV remote suddenly stops working the minute you finally sit down to relax.

It’s not like you need a home equity loan to stock up on them, but it’s still surprising the first time you realize how much a “value pack” of them is going to cost.

Window Blinds

Window blinds have a way of blindsiding you the first time you shop for them.

While spending $30–$60 on blinds for one window might not sound terrible, but when you start multiplying that by the number of windows you have in the house it can add up quickly.

And we’re not even talking about custom blinds. If you want specialty blinds, or have specialty windows or unique measurements to take into consideration, those can get much pricier.

A Few Ways to Keep Costs down… or at Least in Perspective

Fortunately, most of these aren’t huge expenses. They’re just a bit shocking the first time you realize how much they cost.

And there are ways to soften the blow.

For recurring purchases like refrigerator filters, subscriptions or generic replacement options can sometimes save money. Local swap groups and neighborhood apps can be great places to find lightly used garden tools and equipment. Friends and family often have extra tools collecting dust in garages and sheds.

And perhaps spending a little more upfront can actually save money later. Buying the cheapest hose, garbage cans, or blinds available can occasionally turn into buying them twice. So spending a bit more might save you in the long run.

The reality is that owning a home comes with a lot of little purchases nobody talks much about. Sometimes they’re annoying. Often they’re surprising. But they’re usually manageable.

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